Life as We Know It
What
are we to gain from living our lives here on earth? We know that God originally
created us to love Him, glorify Him, and to communicate with Him. But as we
know, the human race, i.e., Adam and Eve, chose to rebel and to believe
the lies of the devil instead of God. Consequently, the human race fell from
grace and from then on had to struggle to regain the righteousness that would
be needed to live with God in eternity. However, the human race could not
become righteous on our own. We needed a Deliverer. We needed someone to
deliver us from the plans of the devil, which included but were not limited to,
everlasting eternity in hell. So, God sent His only Son to teach us the correct or righteous way of living and to then die on the cross for the sins of the entire human race.
Gloriously, Christ arose from the grave conquering eternal death and defeating
the devil, so that all who will believe on Christ will have, instead, eternal
life with God. But that doesn't mean that the devil has given up! No, he wants to thwart God by keeping as many people as he can from believing on Christ and from asking Christ into their hearts. But even when a human hears about and believes on Christ, the devil still doesn't give up. He does everything he can to keep the born-again believer from producing fruit for the Kingdom of God. However, it is much easier for the devil to keep the non-Christian from getting to know Christ, because the devil uses the things of this world to keep people focused on their immediate life.
People
have gotten comfortable in this world. Today, most people are focused on living
as long as they can, because they think that this life is all there is. But,
what they don’t realize is that our soul lives forever somewhere. Unfortunately,
many do not believe in an eternity, let alone an eternity with God. This means
that righteousness often takes a back seat to daily living, to their survival,
and to their plans for life, as they live it to the fullest. Consequently, many
people want to just live life to the fullest and do not even know or want to
know how righteousness plays into their life here on earth as well as into their
eternal life someday.
What
many people do not understand is that God values righteousness more than life
or death. Moreover, in striving for righteousness, people who choose to live
for God and set righteous and virtuous examples for others by their behaviors and
attitudes are actually ambassadors for Christ and eternity. In fact, Christians are to
be living examples of righteousness through our truth, honesty, love, and the many
other virtues that Christ spoke of and represented to us while He was here on
earth. However, it is the cleansing righteousness that we have received through
our belief in and acceptance of Jesus Christ as the living Son of God that will
someday be rewarded in an eternity with God and His Son in Heaven.
Born-again
Christians are to be Christ’s ambassadors and are to live in such a way that
others will want to know more about the grace that God offers to those will believe
on His Living Son, Jesus Christ. Many, though, who claim to be Christians do
not live the Christian life. They do not stand for goodness, love, and truth.
Rather, they live just as non-Christians in the secular world live floundering around day to day with no hope of a future eternity. Although they
claim to be believers, they are not actually “born-again” Christians. Moreover, even though they claim to care about others, they really just care about themselves. Consequently,
many of these “so-called” Christians can seldom be told apart from
non-Christians any more. To make matters
worse, even some “born-again” Christians have actually fallen into the habit of
living for this world instead of living
for Christ. They no longer or perhaps
never did produce fruit for the Kingdom of God, nor do they work at living for
Christ or at being different from the rest of the world. Instead, they allow
their emotions and the values of this world to control their lives to the point
that they can hardly be told from non-Christians.
The
Apostle Paul told Christians in his letter to the Colossians that “Whatever
you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God the Father through Him.” –
(Colossians 3: 17. NIV). Unfortunately, many so-called Christians
fail to live according to the words of Jesus Christ or exhibit even a portion
of the love that He showered upon the world. But if we spend time in the Bible,
we will learn that Paul told us that “as God’s chosen people holy and dearly
loved, (we are to) clothe y(ourselves) with compassion,
kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive
whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord
forgave you. And over all these virtues, put on love, which binds them all
together in perfect unity.” --
(Colossians 3: 12-14. NIV).
How,
though, can authentic Christians live in this world that puts so much emphasis
on momentary pleasure and immediate gratification and at the same time actually
live for Christ and their future eternity, especially if they allow their human
emotions and the values of this world to control their lives? Well, there is a
way, that Christians can set themselves apart from the fleshly secular world.
It is really very simple. We just have to live our lives in such a way that we
are daily glorifying and honoring God and His Son in all we do. Christians have
to make an effort to be different and live by God’s standards rather than the
world’s standards. Moreover, we have to attempt to reach out to other people to
show the true way of Christ, and we can do this through many Christian services
such as Active Relational Christian Mentoring
and by being an example of Christian virtues. Christians need to learn how to
live daily for Christ so that we can provide those positive examples of Christian love for
the rest of the world.
Learning how to live for Christ
God
did not leave us alone to just flounder in a sea of temptations. For not only
did Christ send the Holy Spirit to live within each born-again Christian to
guide them, but God has also given humans a manual on how to live for Him. That
manual is called the Bible. Furthermore, it is within the Bible that God shows
every human who reads the Bible how to come to repentance and Salvation through
His Son, Jesus Christ. Moreover, God then gives the “saved” person both directions
and instructions that Christians can follow in order to live for Christ and in
order to be an example of Christian values, emotions, and integrity.
It
was God’s chosen authors of the Newer Covenant/ Testament who were given the
words of God, which explain and encourage Christians on how to be honest and
loving and how to live for Christ. For, it is through our living examples of
Christ-likeness that we can represent Christ to non-Christians. In fact, there
are specific books and specific chapters of the Bible that address how true Christians
are to live and act within this fallen world. Moreover, the Apostle Paul is just
one of the Biblical authors who wrote about how we are to live for Christ and
His Father. In fact, the book of Ephesians is just one of the books that
the Apostle Paul wrote to encourage and teach new Christians how to live for
Christ daily and to teach us how to be a good example of how all Christians are to
live for Christ.
Previous
to my Easter Post, my last two or three posts focused on the importance of the actions
and behaviors of authentic Christians. In this post today, I am going to continue
to discuss how an authentic Christian is to deal with the emotional and living
challenges of the secular world. The issue of anger in today’s world is just
one of the emotional challenges that all humans, including Christians, have to
face. But how are Christians to deal with anger in a world that expresses anger
in ever increasing and hostile ways. It is also an emotion that can hinder our
being a witness for Christ. So, I will focus specifically on the emotion of anger in this blog and discuss how we can control our anger through the Word of God and through prayer.
Anger is just one of the important emotional
characteristics that can affect the lives of true authentic Christians in a
very negative way. For any negative characteristic portrayed by a Christian can
make all the difference in how someone else sees the Christian faith. It can
even have an effect on whether or not someone will be willing to look at the
life-saving gift of Salvation offered through Christ. So, the first thing you
should ask yourself is this: if you say you are a Christian, can others tell
that you are a Christian by your actions and your lifestyle? Or are you just
trying to play like you are a Christian and hope for the best? Are you
deceiving yourself, but in reality your actions actually tell a great deal about the real you behind the scenes? The second question is this: What kind of affect is
your life having on those around you? In other words, will someone else be able
to see Christ in you and want to know who Christ is? Or, do others see you
letting your fleshly anger control your life?
To
help you answer those questions, we will continue to take a look at the Apostle
Paul’s fourth chapter in the book of Ephesians. We will look
specifically at a couple of the last few verses of the chapter so you can
determine for yourself if you are living in a manner that glorifies God and
Christ, or not. Remember, that every born-again Christian must work continually
on living for Christ. So, don’t become frustrated, but instead work toward
becoming a Christian that will someday hear Christ say, “Well done, my good and
faithful servant.” And if you are walking in the Christian way, would you
consider being an example and role model for others by becoming an active relational Christian mentor?
Walking for Christ Means Not Letting Anger Control Our Lives
One
of the hardest things that every authentic Christian has to face is the many human
emotions that can sidetrack us when we least expect it. One of those emotions
is the emotion of anger. In fact, whether you are a Christian or not, everyone
has felt the emotional response of anger toward a particular person or
situation at some time or another. It is not the anger, though, that becomes the
problem, so much as it our reaction to the anger. For, our reaction to anger can
lead us into sinning even more than the momentary angry emotion that has taken
control of our life. In fact, it the reaction to the anger emotion and its
control over us that has the potential to derail our life and cause us to sin
in monumental ways.
The
Apostle Paul recognized the destructive force of the emotion of anger and that
Christians need to have control of their anger in order not to be pulled into the
destructiveness of anger and its accompanying sinfulness. In verses 26 and 27 in
chapter four of Paul’s letter to the Ephesians we are told that even though a
Christian may become angry with someone, that we are not to let that anger
fester or use it in any way to hurt the other person. For Paul said, “Be angry, AND YET DO NOT SIN; do not let the
sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil an opportunity.”
–
(Ephesians 4: 26, 27. NASB).
But
why should we not allow anger to control our lives? Well we shouldn’t allow
anger to control our lives, because we can then sin even more. Obviously, if we
allow our anger to ‘become the rule’
in our lives, it can cause us become bitter. When we become bitter, we often want
to cling to or hold tighter to our anger, which helps us to feel justified in
the anger. Sleeping on our anger will not make it go away and will even further
our belief that we are justified in our anger. This justification of our anger then
leads to bitterness against the person who made us angry. Consequently, bitterness
then leads to the unforgiveness or worse. It is through our bitterness that we can
begin to feel even more justified in our anger and thus become unwilling to
forgive the other person, simply because we cling to our belief that they hurt
us or did us wrong.
Unforgiveness
will keep us in bondage and can then lead us to many other sins. For example,
you have probably heard the old saying that “bitterness is a pill we swallow in the hopes that the other person will
die.” – (unknown). Sadly, it is true that with
this bitter attitude, we are essentially only hurting ourselves when we fail to
forgive someone. For, our hearts can be damaged with our desire to cling to our
bitterness and unforgiveness. Consequently, our joy and peace is taken from us
as we dwell on our anger, which can then lead to the development of even deeper
bitterness. One of the reasons that we lose our joy and peace is that we are
sinning in our thoughts and are sinning with our desire for retribution against
the other person.
Another
reason that we lose our joy and peace is because our anger and bitterness keeps
us in bondage or slavery, because it is hindering the Holy Spirit’s work in our
lives. For how can we hear the Holy Spirit’s voice when we are constantly in a
state of anger, which is a sin in and of itself. In fact, anger is kind of like
a slow dripping acid that over time damages our hearts so much so that we no
longer look at the world through the eyes of Christ, nor can we let others see
Christ in us, for the anger completely surrounds us. Furthermore, this type of
bitter anger can even lead to debilitating health issues for the person that
clings to their anger and bitterness. Obviously, Christ would not and could not
represent anger and bitterness to the world as He is love and peace, so if we
are representing anger and bitterness we are not representing Christ to the
world.
Forgiving Others
It
is only when we allow our anger to dissipate and when we decide to forgive the
other person that we are then freed from all the sinful encumbrances that are
associated with anger and unforgiveness. But if we hang on to our anger, the
penalties of anger and unforgiveness can last a long time and for even decades,
which can then create a sad and unforgiven life. We know this, because Jesus
told His followers that “If you forgive those who sin against you,
your Heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others,
your father will not forgive your sins.” -- (Matthew 6:14, 15.
NLT).
Christ
sent His Son to die for our sins so that through His shed blood and His resurrection
from death we can be cleansed from our unrighteousness or sins and never have
to be held by the grips of eternal death ever again. To receive this Salvation,
though, we must repent of our sins and then in believing on the living Son of
God we must ask for forgiveness of our sins. This means that we have to give up
all anger and unforgiveness of others in order to accept the forgiveness of
Christ and be Saved. Our acceptance of
this personal forgiveness from Christ means that we realize what forgiveness
actually means, for we have been forgiven of our sins through the death
and resurrection of Jesus Christ.
Christ
paid the penalty for our sins. But, when we deny forgiveness to others after we
have been forgiven by Christ, we fail to acknowledge our common ground as
sinners and fail to acknowledge the price that Christ paid for our sins. But,
if Christ can and did forgive us our sins, then we must also forgive others of
their sins. For, Christ came to earth to forgive us of our sins and to cleanse
us from all unrighteousness. If He can do that, then the least that we can do
is forgive someone for our perceived or real hurt from them. As a true
Christian, we must let all anger and unforgiveness go and forgive the other
person. Moreover, the only true and ultimate judge of sinfulness and/or hurt is
Christ. As God, Christ has the right to not forgive us, but instead He
chose to forgive even the most horrific sins imaginable, if we will just accept
His grace and repent and believe on Him. So, if we are unforgiving of
some earthly hurt that we have received, we have not only made ourselves judge,
jury, and executioner, when God is the only one who is to judge and discipline
us or others for their sins, but we have diminished our Christian
ambassadorship in the sight of others.
Avoiding the pitfalls of the devil
The
devil still loves to get a foothold in our lives in any way that he can, and we
have discovered that anger is just one of his ways of doing so. Not only does
he encourage us to get angry, but he encourages us to cling to our anger and
develop bitter strongholds in our hearts and minds. These strongholds, whatever
they are, can keep us from living our lives fully for Christ and can keep us from
producing fruit for the Kingdom of God.
For
each person, the devil knows what works to get under their skin or to lead them
down the primrose path of sinfulness. Obviously until Christ returns and throws
him into the lake of fire, the devil will continue to use what works in
derailing our lives and promoting sinfulness. Moreover, the devil starts his
attack on our lives long before we are Christians. In fact, if we look back
over our lives, we will discover that early in life as children we often got
angry when we didn’t get our way. We might have even stamped our feet and
thrown a fit. Eventually, though, our anger dissipated, if we had loving caring
parents who did not give into our little tantrums and instead showed us how to
deal with out anger.
Later
in childhood, we might have gotten angry when we thought that another child had
physically or emotionally hurt us through some actual or perceived slight or
action. But here again Christian parents who followed the laws and discipline
of the Bible, taught their children that anger was not something that we were
to hold on to. Christian parents then taught their children how to deal with each
situation based upon the Scriptures of the Bible, and they also taught their
children not to hang on to anger. But, if children weren’t taught about the
pitfalls of anger and its sinfulness, somewhere along the way as they grew and
matured, they could become bitter and begin to think of vengeful things that
they could do to get even with the other person who had hurt them, even if that
hurt was accidental. Without the love of their parents or without direction on
how to deal with anger, as well as without the knowledge of the love of God,
some children will grow up to have an underlying disposition of anger that will
control the overall direction of their life. This is just what the devil wants.
Anger and Murder
One
of the Ten Commandments states, “Thou shalt not murder”. We all understand what
murder is and that we are not to take another’s life. But why do some people
commit murder? Could it be because they are angry with another person for some
reason or another? In other words, anger
is the basis of murderous actions. We know this to be true, because Jesus
Christ underscores this destructiveness of anger. For Jesus said, “You have heard that the law of Moses says, ‘Do not commit
murder’. If you commit murder, you are subject to judgment. But I say, if you
are angry with someone you are subject to judgment.” –
(Matthew 5: 21, 22. NLT).
I
like the way the Amplified Bible says the same thing because in clarifying the
meaning of the Greek and Hebrew words, it gives us a better understanding of
what Jesus was telling the people about the role anger plays in murder. Verse
22 in the Amplified Bible says it this way: “But I say
to you that everyone who continues to be angry with his brother or harbors
malice (enmity of heart) against him shall be liable to and unable to escape the
punishment imposed by the court. …” So, just as the murderer is sent
before the court for judgment, so too will the person who harbors anger in
their heart be sent for judgment. The judgment given by God will be imposed upon
them just as God would impose judgment for murder. For a heart that harbors
anger is a heart that can easily take the next step and murder the person for what she
did to cause their anger and bitterness. Certainly, the devil jumps for joy
when humans cling to and stew over their anger, for it can then lead to even
greater crimes and sinfulness such as murder.
The
devil also knows that the heart is often in control of our actions. In fact, the
words of God in the Bible tell us: “The human heart is most deceitful and
desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? But I know! I, the LORD,
search all hearts and examine secret motives. I give all people their due
rewards, according to what their actions deserve.” -- (Jeremiah 17: 9, 10.
NLT).
Understanding
the harmful effects of anger and the destruction that it wrecks upon our hearts
and lives can only come from reading and meditating on the Bible and from
letting the Holy Spirit guide our minds into all truth. But this study and understanding
must start at an early age so that humans are not tripped up and caught in the
trap of anger. Therefore, it is important for parents to explain to their
children that anger is bad and sinful. Children need to be taught that anger could
be hurtful to both the other person and to them, while at the same time teaching them
that they are to be kind and thoughtful to others. Hopefully, with a life
focused on Biblical study young people can eventually began to see that
vengeance and anger are inappropriate and hurtful, as there are many examples
in the Bible of people succumbing to their anger.
Most
children who are taught how to handle their anger and to instead focus on love eventually
begin to understand the ramifications of this anger trap that the devil sets
for humans. Sadly, though, for the children that do not get Sunday school
teachings, who do not get parental teachings about the Ten Commandments, or who
do not get the Christian teachings about caring about others, or who cling to
their anger, bitterness and vengeful attitude can have their lives eaten eat up
with anger. They can often fall into the devil’s trap of a life engaging in anger
and bitterness. Their life of anger then creates great hurt on both sides of the anger
equation.
What Happens When We Don’t Teach Our Children about the
Ramifications of Anger
Today
we are reaping what we have sown or in this case what we have not sown. We are reaping at least a couple of
generations of angry people. That is because we have not shown our young people
how to handle anger in a positive and forgiving way. We have allowed our children
to think that anger is okay. Consequently, we have young people on college campuses
that are heart angry and bitter about many things in life. For, they have never
met the Savior. Many have not even been told about Him. Furthermore, they have
never been taught by their parents that God loves them. Young people today,
including those in their thirties and forties are only focused on what they
want or think that they can’t have, and are angry that they can’t get what they
want. Moreover, they are so angry inside that they do not want to even talk to
Christians or other people who are not angry for fear that they could learn
something that might take away their anger. They also have strongholds in their
hearts and minds that they guard closely for fear that they will see the light.
The devil and the devil’s secular society have really done a number on them. But the
ones who have played into the devil’s plans are the parents, both Christian and
non-Christian parents, by not teaching our children about manners, caring, love, and
kindness.
If
authentic Christians teach and mentor their children and young people in Christian kindness and love, then our
teenagers and young adults, and even our younger children can be a lighthouse
for others; showing other people that they understand the uselessness and
hurtfulness that surrounds anger and bitterness. Indeed, the young people who
are living out their Christ-centered life for others to see, are the ones that
have been actively and relationally mentored by their Christian parents and grandparents,
or by other Christians such as their Sunday school teachers and their youth
leaders. Many of these young people will have been taught that even holding onto
their anger over night means that the one who takes anger to bed with them will
awake in the morning with that anger filling their souls even more. Remember
the verse, “… do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil
an opportunity.” It is imperative that our children and young people be
taught to let go of their anger and to instead fill their hearts and souls with
forgiveness and love for others.
Sadly,
in our day and age, there are many young people who have not been taught or mentored
about letting go of anger. They have not been taught about forgiveness, or
about the opportunity and gift of coming to know Christ as their Savior. Consequently, we have many young
people who are running amuck as well as using their anger to justify their
hateful attitudes toward adults and others. Their anger even takes the form of
bullying and humiliating others. Because they do not know how to deal with
anger, we now have riots over situations such as not wanting to hear someone
speak because they have a different opinion than theirs. Moreover, instead of
going through the justice system we now have riots that include the destruction of other people’s
property; all in the name of “I want my way no matter what” or “I can take
justice into my own hands.” What happened to the positive mentoring that was to
take place by loving parents and relatives?
Unfortunately,
many times our children and young people simply repeat what they have seen in
the lives of their parents and grandparents or other adults. They see that
their parents show anger and bitterness toward another person and then they think
that it is okay for them to do so too. So, even when we think that we are not
overtly mentoring negative emotions or beliefs, we can still be passively
mentoring those negative things to our children. Remember too, that humans are
intuitive and observant. We can often see what others are really trying to
hide, because we can also see within their actions, within the tone of their voice,
and with the negative words that they have used what they might not otherwise
want us to see. That is why it is so important to live in such a way that only
the light of Christ shines through our lives for others to see.
Choosing Christ and Being an Authentic Christian
Are
you a true authentic Christian? Do you attempt to live your life in a way that
glorifies God and Jesus Christ or have you succumbed to the devil’s and the secular world’s version of momentary
happiness? Life is much more than just the few fleeting days and years that we spend here
on earth. For no matter how long we live, what we are experiencing now here on
earth is but a moment in time compared to the eternity that each of us will
enter once we leave this earth. But the type of eternity that we spend is up to
each of us. Will you spend an eternity in hell in anguish and without love, or
will you spend an eternity in love, peace, and joy with God? The destination is
up to you!
Christ
is the only One who can give you the gift of eternal life that is lived in
love, peace and joy. Indeed, it is only through belief on Jesus Christ as the living
Son of God, who gave His life for your sins and mine, that you can enter into
this eternity. If you have not given your life to Christ, now is the time to do
so. Please do not wait another day, because we are not guaranteed tomorrow, and
once we leave our earthly bodies in death, we are immediately transported
spiritually into an eternity. Do you know where you will go when you die? I do!
I know that I will spend eternity with God and His Son, Jesus Christ.
If
you believe that you are a Christian, but have allowed anger to control your
life, please take the time to pray for Christ to take away your anger. Then,
turn to the Bible and study the Word of God so that you can see what anger really
does to you and to others around you. Let Christ heal you of all your anger. Learn
how to forgive! Only then, can you become an Active Relational Christian Mentor to others who may also have
anger issues or need other mentoring. For every Christian must understand that they are ambassadors and
representatives of Christ and the Gospel of Salvation. In fact, all born-again Christians
should look at their daily lives closely to see if they are portraying Christ
to the world. Certainly, if other people cannot see Christ in you and your
actions, then they may not want to find out about Christ or may not want to ask
Him into their lives. Remember, as a born-again Christian we are to be Christ’s
ambassadors living by His Word and Virtues!
May
God Bless each of you. I pray that you will benefit from knowing more about the
detriment of anger and not letting anger control your life. I also pray that you will come to know the One and Only God
and will be able to truly represent Christ to the World through your actions
and words. The following is a poem by Anne Graham Lotz that gives you just a glimpse of what Christ went through on the cross in order to give you the gift of Salvation and an eternity with God.
Blessings of the Day: Day 24
by Anne Graham Lotz
He said, “It is finished!” And bowing His head, He gave up
by Anne Graham Lotz
He said, “It is finished!” And bowing His head, He gave up
His spirit. John 19:30
After nine hours of standing on His feet,
after being scourged, slapped, and manhandled, after six
hours of hanging on the cross, the average person would
have barely had enough life and breath left to even
whisper. But Jesus, the Lamb of God, with life still fully
flowing through His body, shouted out in a clear, ringing,
triumphant voice, “It is finished.” The price for our
redemption had been paid! The sacrifice for our sin had
been made! Sin was forgiven! Guilt was atoned for!
Eternal life was now offered! Heaven has been opened!
It is finished!
You don’t have to do more good works than bad
works.
You don’t have to go to church every time the door
opens.
You don’t have to climb the stairs to some statue.
You don’t have to be religious.
You don’t even have to be good!
It is finished! The price has been paid!
Revelation
3: 20
“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the
door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with Me.” –
(NIV).
Is
Christ knocking on your heart?